How not to get your ex girlfriend back!

by: King Ian

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How 5 steps can make her miss you and get her back for goodOkay, okay so the title how not to get your ex girlfriend back wouldn’t be something that you’re expecting to see around here. After all, this is a place to get your girlfriend back for good right?

Anyways, try not to give much thought about the nutty title for now. Once you’re done reading this segment you’ll understand the strange reference.

We’re featuring a little something different this time around from the usual how to get my ex girlfriend back material but trust me- this is worth reading.

I stumbled across a cool article by Dr. Margaret Paul PH.D - a relationship expert and best selling author that’s been featured in Oprah and wanted to share her views on what she figures are red flags that you should look out for that could inevitably spell big trouble in your future:

Especially if you’re dating someone now or you’re in the middle- not sure if you still want your ex girlfriend back or maybe you just like keeping your options open and don’t mind dating while you figure things out with your ex.

Before you take a relationship to the next level with a girl you’re dating because you figure she’d make a perfect mother for your babies- you might want to read this first.

Future headaches and what to look out for:

Over the years of her research and experience working with people that want nothing but a long and lasting relationship, she’s discovered what she says are “red flags” that you should look out for that might indicate future serious problems. She stresses that almost too often, when someone has moved forward in a relationship, what might have once seemed like a small “problem” eventually becomes a major headache- leading to the end of the relationship.

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Here’s her list (which is pretty long) but you’ll be glad you took a couple of minutes to mull it over. She cautions that while some of the stuff in her list may not seem like a big deal to you now and you’re okay with it- just remember it’s unlikely that you’ll be able to change her down the road. I could send you a link that takes you straight to her report but since you’re here and I’ve really nothing better to do, I’ll put the list here and make it easy for you.

So let’s hit it! (Drum roll please…)

1. She comes on really strong at the start of the relationship, and lays it out thick, always saying what you want to hear to get you where she wants you to be.

She (the good doctor) explains that this is one of the symptoms of narcissism and people who are narcissists are really intense in their pursuit. She or he might say- I feel this sense of connection with you that I’ve never felt before with anyone in my life. The problem? Narcissists are hot on the heels of another chase once you’re in- or become increasingly demanding once you’re with them.

2. She gets really upset, critical and goes into a withdrawal or goes nuts when you say no, or plain reject her.

This personality trait demands constant attention and if you don’t feed the “beast” well, it could turn ugly if you know what I mean.

3. He or she tries to constantly persuade you to think that your feelings or your position on a matter is always wrong-

While her feelings and position are always correct. It becomes a threat when you disagree on a matter.

4. Here’s the kicker (for me anyways) She goes on and go about herself and pays no attention to you or become uninterested when you speak about yourself.

The only attention that she’ll demand will be for herself and never you. You can see how this would eventually cause a break up or a major headache.

5. A older or more mature girlfriend that has never tied the knot, been in a string of unhappy and broken up relationships, or have been in countless broken marriages.

The person is an older man or woman who has never been married and has been in a series of broken relationships, or has had numerous broken marriages. This may indicate that she or he- may not know how to carry on a loving relationship.

6. That person may have been or was abused as a child and has never received proper therapy.

Dr. Margaret explains that a person abused as a child may see their partners as the people that may have responsible for the abuse. It’s not going to be easy to make a relationship like this works she adds.

7. Ever notice that she may lack compassion or empathy?

You’ll end up feeling miserable when your partner cannot relate to your accomplishments or feel anything for your pain.

8. The girl you’re seeing left her children.

Abandoning a child or a baby can show that one lacks empathy. This doesn’t refer to parents that may have left their child because of unusual circumstances or leaving their child with someone else because they cannot realistically care for that child anymore. In a nutshell- it could mean that the person can only care for one thing and that’s for themselves.

9. She’s never open about learning from a conflict in the relationship.

If she’s never going to be open and earn about themselves and you when you hit a bump in your relationship, you’re never going to resolve that conflict and it’ll happen over and over and over (you get the point) again.

10. Bad habits or addictions that are not acceptable to you.

The list goes on- boozing, smokes gambling, whatever. So just don’t expect them to ever change, unless they willingly do it themselves- the good doctor adds. (so that’s why my ex girlfriend left me. hmmmm…)

11. She’s financially inapt, and always ends up burning a hole in your wallet.

Dr. Margaret adds that many of her clients has had their ex burned by lending money, or by letting their partner who’s not earning their keep live off them. (like vultures..)

12. You kind of feel that she’s dishonest.

I say this is easy- if you only want to see the truth. For example if she goes on and on about owning stuff, driving expensive cars and you find out that it’s just the opposite- look out.

13. She doesn’t have any close friends nor a bond with her family members.

There’s a reason why someone doesn’t have friends and it’s not always because they have a contagious disease.

14. She’s always judging someone or is always demeaning someone else.

If she has a issue with being overly judgmental and does not want to change, this will lead to huge problems later.

15. She’s extremely possessive and gets jealous all the time.

If the girl you’re dating is more concerned about controlling you then letting you do your thing, it’s the only thing that she cares about in this relationship.

16. A totally different take on values, opinions, religion or spirituality or even food preferences and health issues which can create dangerous conflicts.

I’ll leave it to you to decide on this one. I’m kind of in the middle of this one except for the health part I guess.

17. She does not have any interests nor hobbies.

The relationship expert and author says that for most part, the person will become overly dependent on you and this spells trouble with a capital T. Can you say “get a life willya?”

18. Always laying the blame on someone else for her feelings or circumstances.

Always a victim and will eventually blame you for how she feels etc… you get the picture. And it’s not a pretty picture naturally.

Well, that about sums it up- the big question is what do you think about all of this? Make sense?

Does this bring back a sense of deja vu about your relationship with your ex girlfriend?

If your ex has a few or more of the “signs” above- is she really worth your time getting back with?

Tough questions but you’ll have to answer them yourself. Leave a comment and let us know how we’re doing.

Till next, take care.

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Do you know how to read the signs?

How do you know if your ex girlfriend hasn’t gotten over you yet?

Does your ex girlfriend still care for you?

If you could read the signs and know for sure- would that really help you to get your ex girlfriend back?

Even if she seemingly has a new boyfriend?


Understanding telling signs that your ex girlfriend is still not over you will not only be a major confidence booster for you but- you’ll be able to take the next steps knowing that your chances to get your ex back are obviously good. (even if she’s ignoring you- but this is covered in the video below)

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Some of the telling signs to look out for in your ex girlfriendĀ  (so that you’ll know your chances are good) are the below:

  1. Your ex girlfriend is showing emotions whether they’re positive or negative emotions
  2. Your ex girlfriend is still staying in touch with you one way or another
  3. Your ex girlfriend is cold one moment and “warm” the other.

Pay close to attention to this video because we guarantee that you’ll be able to learn something valuable.

Even if she has a new boyfriend if she shows you the signs that she’s still not over you- then your chances to get her back will be extremely good.

Find out how to get her back quickly by clicking here.

Do you see any of the telling signs that your ex girlfriend may have showed you mentioned in the video?

If you do, congratulations.

The next thing to do now is to learn how to get her back for good by applying the correct methods.

The correct methods?

They’re ways to approach your ex girlfriend or wife without causing her to react in a negative fashion and worse- drive her further away.

Even if you see the “telling” signs that your ex wants you back, you can absolutely ruin your chances of getting back with her if you don’t do it right.

Especially if your ex girlfriend has a new boyfriend!

If you don’t want to worry about “messing” up your chances of getting your ex back, why don’t you get someone to help you?

Click here to see how you can get expert help so that you won’t lose her.

If you your ex girlfriend, it’s forever.

I always say this in my posts.

“Forever is a long, long time.”

You can absolutely do this and get her back in your arms even if your ex girlfriend did not show any of the signs in the video.

Just have faith in yourself and educate yourself about the correct methods and have a strategy to get your ex girlfriend back.

Good luck and God bless!

Steps that you can take video

This video will share some insights into female psychology (because that’s what it’s all about) and show you some immediate first steps so that you’ll know how to get her back for good.

To see how you can get step by step methods to get your ex girlfriend back without worrying if you’re doing it right click here.

Listen, I always say this: If you want to understand how a female thinks, then listen to another female.

Men and women do not think alike! Guys forget this all the time!

They respond and react to circumstances differently than a guy will.

Don’t believe me?

Ever had a time when you wanted to hang out with your buddies to watch the playoffs?

Remember how your ex girlfriend would go nuts just because of that?

The reason for this? She feels that your friends are more important than her!

On the other hand, she has no problems hanging out with her girlfriends at the mall and as a guy- you probably wouldn’t too.

As a matter of fact, that might just put a smile on your face! Why? Let’s face it guys. We don’t pretty much enjoy taking our girlfriends out for shopping that much now do we?

In the video above, Ashley talks about gaining control of the situation- and keeping your emotions in check.

She talks about giving some space to your ex so that your ex girlfriend will not feel like you’re driving her into a corner.

If you do that and push her for a commitment, you’ll eventually end up losing her.

And very quickly especially if she’s just started seeing someone.

You’ll just help the other guy and get her falling back to the “other guy” for support!

It’s crucial that you follow the steps explained in the video so that you can firstly- get her attracted to you again an secondly- get her back with you again.

See part two of the video below as we explain and share some tactics on what to do next so that you’ll know how to get her back for good.

Part two of the video series

This second video reveals specific tactics on how you can immediately get her attraction and get her to notice you without ‘scaring” her off.

To learn more about female psychology and how you can use that to get your ex back click here.

Just try putting into action the methods and tactics described here.

Remember, keep your emotions intact and in check- whatever the case.

I always say this- I know what it’s like to lose a person that you care for.

I’ve always looked back and wish I’d taken the time to educate myself so that things could have been different today!

I had too much pride to learn from anyone I suppose.

But most importantly- I didn’t take any type of action or make any attempt to reconcile.

I always thought that she’d eventually come to her senses and we’d get back together.

It never happened.

If you’re patient and apply the correct strategy, you can make it happen.

Also, if you want someone to take you by the hand so that you’ll know what to do each step of the way, why don’t you click the link somewhere above the page.

Let someone help you get your ex girlfriend back without worrying if you’re doing it correctly.

It could mean all the difference between success and failure!

If you lose her, you lose her forever.

Forever is a heck of a long time!

Good luck! You can make it happen!

You can get back with your ex girlfriend if you want to.

I’m rooting for you!

Free report: Ten mistakes most guys make

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Click the above download button to save this free report.

Watch the video above by Ahsley Kay about the top ten mistakes that a guy will usually make when they’ve just lost and broke up with their girlfriend.

I’m pretty sure you’ll learn something valuable- after all if you can’t learn female psychology from another female, you can’t learn it from anywhere else.

Make sure you go ahead and download the report and find out what the top ten mistakes are.

Don’t make these ten mistakes

These are mistakes that no one can really afford when they’re trying to win back their ex girlfriend.

In this free report, you’ll be asked ten tough questions about yourself.

Ten questions that will help you in your efforts to reconcile with your ex girlfriend.

After you answer these questions- you will be clear on what it is that you actually want to accomplish. You’ll know how to get her back for good and keep her.

The questions will help you to also see the most common mistakes people will make when they’ve just lost their girlfriends: so that you don’t make them too.

We promise this free report will open your eyes and reveal something about yourself and your relationship that even you have not thought about.

Read the report and put it to use.

Remember to put into action what you learn.

Don’t wait if you can- take the first step and put into action your plan to get back together with your ex girlfriend. (even if she has a new boyfriend! Have faith!))

Don’t make the same mistake like I did. I’ve been in your shoes before. I lost someone that I could never replace.

I’m not saying again that there’s no else in the world for you. Of course there will be- the question is: Do you want to be with someone else if you can help it?

All the knowledge in the world is useless if you don’t take the first step.

Also- don’t forget to plan your course of action. For example, before you go ahead and call your ex girlfriend- plan what it is that you will actually say to her.

Remember the objective:

Get a positive response from your ex girlfriend or ex wife for that matter.

Do not sound desperate!

Stay calm all the time and stay focused on your goals. By that we mean- do not get overly distressed if she rejects you or does not answer your calls.

Be patient!

If you need more information about how to get her back for good, we have some valuable information on this blog. Take some time and read some of the blog posts for more information.

The more you know, the more confident you will be in getting back your ex!

Till next time, stay well!

Good Luck!